Nervous to Join a Board Game Group? Here’s Why You’ll Feel at Home Faster Than You Think

The Social Side of Board Games: Finding Community Through Play

Starting something new can feel like sitting at the edge of the table before the first move, full of excitement but also uncertainty. That is especially true when it comes to stepping into the world of board games and meeting new people for the first time.

Over the years, board gaming has been more than just a hobby for me. It has been a source of connection, support and belonging through childhood, teenage years and adulthood. In this article, I want to answer some of the most common questions people have asked me about joining the hobby and share what the board game community is truly like.

Everyone’s journey is different. These are my experiences from being part of the local community in Dorset, though I have heard similar stories from players across the UK and beyond.

Is It Awkward to Join a Board Game Group as a Beginner?

This is one of the biggest worries most people have and honestly, it depends on the group. Walking into a room where you do not know anyone can feel intimidating. If you have a friend already in the group, that first step is easier. But even if you are going alone, there are simple ways to make the experience smoother.

For me arriving on time is one of the best things you can do. It gives you a chance to speak to the organiser before games begin. Most organisers are happy to guide you through what to expect and introduce themselves, suggest suitable games and introduce you to regular players. In my experience, people in the board game hobby genuinely enjoy sharing it. There is often excitement around teaching games and welcoming new players.

At our Big Top events, we make a point to chat with new players, learn what they enjoy and match them with a group and a game that suits them. It creates a relaxed, friendly atmosphere where people quickly feel part of something rather than on the outside looking in. That sense of belonging is what makes a good gaming group special.

What Is the Etiquette When Playing with New People?

Board game etiquette is simple and built around respect and enjoyment. The most important thing to remember is introduce yourself, be polite and treat both the game and the people at the table with care. Offering to help set up or pack away is always appreciated.

The most important thing to remember is that the competition stays within the game. Whether you win or lose, the goal is to enjoy the experience together. Good sportsmanship, patience when teaching or learning and kindness go a long way to being part of a group you will return to time and time again. These small actions shape the welcoming culture that makes the hobby so accessible.

Are Board Games Only for Kids or “Nerds”?

This is one of the biggest misconceptions about board games. Over the years, I have played with people from all walks of life. I have taught games as part of children’s clubs, played with military personnel, enjoyed card games with anime fans and sat down for deep strategy games with tradespeople.

Board gaming is incredibly diverse. It brings together people who might never have crossed paths otherwise. At its core, it is about gathering around a table, sharing moments and creating stories together. This is the part of the hobby that is a universal experience many can enjoy. It is not limited to any one type of person. Board games are for anyone who enjoys connecting with others.

How Can Board Games Help You Meet New People?

For me, board games have been one of the most natural ways to meet people. I grew up in a small village in the middle on no where so I often felt isolated. There were not many opportunities to meet others who shared my interests due to there not being loads of people around. That changed when I found a local game store as a teenager in town. The owner introduced me to Magic: The Gathering, and through that, I met people who shared my passion. That single connection opened the door to friendships and a sense of belonging. Later in life, when I moved away and started fresh, it was the same hobby that helped me build new connections again. Visiting another game store introduced me to new communities and different styles of gaming, including miniature games other than Warhammer.

What makes board gaming unique is how naturally conversations develop. You start by learning the rules and playing a game, and over time, those shared experiences grow into friendships. It is a low-pressure way to meet people. You are not expected to make small talk straight away because the game itself gives you a shared focus. Before you know it, you are part of a group and returning to play with the same group of people each week.

Why the Board Game Community Matters

One of the most meaningful aspects of this hobby is the community. I have met some wonderful people through board gaming that have been supportive, welcoming and accepting. There is very little judgement because what connects everyone is the shared enjoyment of games. That shared passion creates a space where people can relax and be themselves.

Through both high and low moments in my life, the hobby has provided consistency and support. Sitting down at a table, focusing on a game and sharing laughs with others can be incredibly grounding.

It still surprises me how much of an impact this hobby has had on my wellbeing and I aim to offer that to others as well.

Taking the First Step

If you are on the fence about trying board games or joining a group, I understand the hesitation. It can feel like a big step. But from my experience, it is one of the most rewarding ones you can take.

You are not just learning a new hobby. You are opening the door to a community. A space where people welcome you, share your interests and create lasting memories together.

So the real question is not whether you should try it. It is whether you are ready to sit down at the table and begin your journey.

❓ Frequently Asked Questions About Board Games & Community

Is it normal to feel nervous before joining a board game group?

Yes, it is completely normal. Walking into any new social setting can feel intimidating, especially if you do not know anyone yet. Most people in board game groups have felt exactly the same at some point, so they understand how you feel. The good news is that once you sit down and start playing, the focus shifts to the game which naturally eases those nerves.

How do I find a local board game group near me?

You can find local board game groups through social media, community centres, local game stores or platforms like Meetup. Searching for “board game groups near me” or “tabletop gaming community” along with your town or city is a great place to start. Many groups are welcoming to beginners and often advertise open events.

Do I need to know how to play games before I attend?

Not at all. Most groups are very happy to teach games to new players. In fact, teaching is a big part of the hobby and something many players enjoy. You do not need any prior knowledge, just a willingness to learn and join in.

What types of people go to board game groups?

You will meet people from all kinds of backgrounds. Board gaming attracts a wide range of people, including students, professionals, creatives, tradespeople and families. There is no “type” of person you need to be to enjoy the hobby. If you enjoy games and meeting people, you will fit in.

What should I bring to my first board game night?

Most of the time, you do not need to bring anything other than yourself. Some people like to bring snacks or drinks, but it is always best to check with the organiser first. If you own games, you can bring them along but it is not expected, especially as a beginner.

How long do board game sessions usually last?

It depends on the group and the games being played. Some games take 20 to 30 minutes, while others can last a few hours. Many board game nights run for several hours, allowing people to play multiple games at their own pace.

What if I am shy or not very competitive?

Board gaming is perfect for people who are shy or not overly competitive. The game itself provides a shared activity, which makes conversation feel more natural. There are many games that are cooperative rather than competitive, meaning you work together as a team rather than against each other.

Are board games expensive to get into?

They can be, but they do not have to be. When you join a group, most games are provided, so you can try a wide range of games without buying any. This makes it easy to explore the hobby before deciding if you want to invest in your own collection.

What are some good board games for beginners?

There are many beginner-friendly games that are easy to learn and fun to play. Popular starting points include Ticket to Ride, Carcassonne, and Codenames. These games have simple rules but still offer plenty of enjoyment and replay value.

How do board games help with making friends?

Board games create a relaxed environment where people can interact naturally. Instead of trying to make conversation from scratch, you are sharing an activity. Over time, regular meetups and shared experiences help turn those interactions into friendships.

What if I do not enjoy my first visit?

That is completely okay. Every group has a different atmosphere and not every group will be the right fit for you. If your first experience does not feel right, it is worth trying another group. There are many communities out there and finding the right one can make all the difference.

Can board games help with mental wellbeing?

Many people find board gaming helpful for their mental wellbeing. It provides social interaction, a sense of belonging and a way to focus on something enjoyable. For many, it is a break from daily stress and an opportunity to relax and connect with others.

Is it too late to start board gaming as an adult?

It is never too late. Many people discover the hobby later in life and quickly become part of a community. Board gaming is one of those hobbies where age is just a number and it doesn't matter, only your willingness to join in and enjoy the experience.

Do I have to be “good” at games to join?

Not at all. Board gaming is about having fun, not being the best player. Everyone starts somewhere and most groups are supportive of new players learning the ropes.

What makes the board game community so welcoming?

The shared love of games creates an instant connection. Most players remember what it felt like to be new, so they are often eager to help others feel comfortable. That shared experience helps create a friendly and inclusive environment.